How to Deal with a Scorpio Man Ignoring You

By Nidhi Nangia. Updated: October 5, 2017
How to Deal with a Scorpio Man Ignoring You

Did you have a fight with your Scorpio guy? Did you hurt his feelings or emotions in any way?Do you have to deal with an angry Scorpio? A Scorpio man will become angry or sad, and you will never know where you did wrong. Silence of an otherwise energetic and passionate Scorpio man is agonizing, and you will want to get him back on track at any cost. Read this oneHOWTO article to find out how to deal with a Scorpio man ignoring you.

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Understand a Scorpio Man Ignoring You

Scorpio males may get distant at times, and this is normal when you are in a relationship with him. A Scorpio guy can be cold and hot at the same time. At one time, he may be attentive and very responsive, while at other times, he may just disappear and even ignore your calls and messages. It is normal for them to withdraw occasionally, but the other partner may feel baffled and completely puzzled. They have a general tendency to withdraw when they want to deal with their unhappiness, dissatisfaction, stress or workload. The basic tip is to stop worrying and let him be. He will always come around and approach you with an explanation. But this needs quite a lot of patience and persistence. If you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man and he has started ignoring you, don’t think that he wants to part ways with you. He may love you and still ignore you, perhaps because he needs some space and time to recover. He will come back to you once he gathers his mind and finds the right time to talk.

Why a Scorpio Man Will Ignore You

As a matter of fact, Scorpio men are very emotional, trustworthy and passionate, but they will never let anyone know about it. When they are in a happy attitude, they will share every thought with you, and never hide anything from you. But when they are hurt or sad, you will quickly know that they are upset. They will make it quite obvious with their temper, attitude and behavior. Most of the times, he will start ignoring you only when you showed signs of ignorance, indifference, disinterest and lack of concern. Once you did that, he will need reassurance that you care for him and want him. First of all, a Scorpio man will be angry, then hurt, and then ignore you. Scorpio men are intuitive and will actually tell when girls are into them. They will also tell when girls are no more interested in them and want to part ways. But sometimes, they are too possessive. You ignore them once, and they will quickly think about what they will do if you leave them.

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How to Know That a Scorpio Man is Ignoring You

Scorpio men are introspective and independent, and will often withdraw when they need space to handle their stress, problems, workload and other issues. Sometimes, they will also ignore you if they are irritated with too much of togetherness. Even if they will disappear for a few hours or days, they will want their partner to be available for them when they want to come back. Although this is a double standard attitude, you need to understand his need to be alone at times, and welcome him back when he is over with his loneliness. By doing this, you will always win a Scorpio man’s heart forever. Here are a few signs you will see when a Scorpio man is entering into his lonely mode:

  • He will not talk to you normally and will not share his feelings and emotions with you
  • He will get irritated even if you are around in the same room
  • He will not want to make any kind of physical contact with you, not even holding hands
  • Making love is impossible for a Scorpio man who is not feeling happy or in love with you

When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t feel intimidated by it. It is better not to take his withdrawals personally. Most of the times, staying away from you will make him closer to you and make him realize how he needs you in his life. When a Scorpio man wants to be alone, it is usually because he wants to gather his emotions and understand them more clearly. If a Scorpio man is ignoring you, don’t ignore him back in return. Just be patient, let him be alone for some time. He will gather his senses and come back to you always.

Let Silence Prevail

When a Scorpio man remains silent, you know you have either hurt him or done something that made him angry. You may not even realize what you did that offended him. He prefers to close off until he is back to his senses and feels that it’s the right time to talk. This means that you have to wait until he comes out of his enclosure and talk to you about the matter. Don’t force him to talk about the issue when he is upset, as it may make the things even worse. So, if you see your Scorpio man silent, upset or angry, leave him alone and give him some time. But make sure that the distance is not too long to kill the connection. If you start ignoring him back or do not approach him in any way, it will become a competition as to who can ignore better than the other. It’s best to give him some time and occasionally ask him if there is something you can do.

Watch his Mood

Sometimes, a Scorpio man seems to be having a bad day and thus may not be in a mood to entertain you. If that’s the case, you may have nothing to do with his bad mood, but he may still lash out on others. As he walks into the room, you will quickly feel his energy coming in all directions. If you are feeling such vibes, it is best to leave him alone and not say anything. Let him be silent for a few hours, and then he will himself come back to you. He will blow up if others force him to talk about an issue that is worrying Scorpio at that time. Even if he was upset due to his workload, he may blame others for it in some way or the other. So, it’s best to leave him alone and allow him to deal with his issues himself.

Apologize When It’s Your Fault

If you know what wrong you did with him, the best thing to do is to approach him and apologize. Just apologize, don’t ask for forgiveness right now. After that, let him be alone and gather his mind. Scorpio guys have a tendency to hold grudges for long. So, depending on how hard you hurt him, give him some time to decide whether he should forgive you or not. If you have apologized, chances are that he will. He will become even more resentful if it was your fault and you don’t feel the need to apologize.

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Stay calm

Scorpios guys will lash out when they are angry, which is why they prefer ignoring you instead of starting conflict. Due to this, it becomes even more necessary to stay quiet and give them space. If you don’t, astrology believers think they may blow up. If you hurt them in the past, they will bring it back and throw it at you. It’s best to stay quiet and give him time so that he can process what’s going on in his mind.

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This is biggest BS article I have ever read... if He is ignoring you etc. Its your fault... read some more, its something you did. Okay
LOL! If you are doing all this to salvage a relationship, you are dealing with a child, not and adult. RUN!
Run indeed! This is how all the Scorpios I know have acted in a relationship. This advice is so bogus. No one should tolerate their double standards, silences, insecurities, manipulations, etc., who cares about having a healthy relationship.

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