How To Deal With A Scorpio Man Ignoring You
Did you have a fight with your Scorpio man? Did something happen that now you have to deal with an angry Scorpio? Is your Scorpio man ignoring your texts? It is a common trait of a Scorpio man to become angry or sad, without much obvious reason. But we know, silence from an otherwise energetic and passionate Scorpio man can be agonizing. It can be difficult to know how to deal with a scorpion man, but don’t worry, we’re here to help you!
If you want to understand why your Scorpio man stops communicating, stay tuned! Here at oneHOWTO, we will be discussing; how to deal with a Scorpio man ignoring you.
Why does a Scorpio man ignore you?
It is a Scorpio male trait that these guys may become distant at times. This is specifically common if you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man. At times, he may be attentive and very responsive, while other times, he may just disappear, even ignoring your calls and messages. It is normal for a Scorpio man to occasionally withdraw himself from his partner.
Scorpio men have a general tendency to withdraw when they need to deal with their own; unhappiness, dissatisfaction, stress or workload. In this situation, we recommend giving him space and time and letting him be. In order to do this, you will need to be patient, understanding it from his point of view. In the end a relationship is about compromise, and yes, maybe this behavior may not seem fair at the time, but it’s just how Scorpio men can be. A relationship is about compromise and understanding, from both sides. If you are in a relationship with a Scorpio man and he is ignoring you, know that it does not necessarily mean he does not love you. A Scorpio man can be in love with you but still ignore you, this is simply (despite at times being frustrating) just a trait of his Zodiac sign.
Once a Scorpio man has had sufficient time and analyses things through hindsight, he will return.
If you want to discover more about Scorpio men, their traits and know how to deal with a Scorpio man when he becomes distant, take a look at our article on how to understand Scorpio men.
Understanding a Scorpio man
As a matter of fact, Scorpio men are very emotional, trustworthy and passionate. However, at the same time, they are very private, specifically when it comes to their emotions and feelings. When a Scorpio man is happy, he will share every thought with you, appearing to be very open and transparent. However, if a Scorpio man is hurt or sad, there is a high chance he might withdraw and this Scorpio might ignore your suddenly. In fact, if a Scorpio man is in a bad mood, you will 100% know about it.
Scorpio men have can at times lose their cool. If your Scorpio loses their cool and see you, as they partner, are indifferent; they will react. Scorpio men need reassurance, if they feel that their partner no longer likes them or is falling out of love with them; again, they will react. A Scorpio man is intuitive, but unfortunately, can also be too possessive. If your Scorpio man feels some of the above, your Scorpio man may ignore you for a while.
Scorpios have a reputation of being difficult, but this is just to do with their passion. Yes, maybe they are complicated. But for some reason Scorpio men often get a bad rap. We should know to be understanding and not to judge anyone for their star sign. We wouldn't want this to happen to Scorpio women or any gender either.
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Is he ignoring me?
As we have already mentioned, Scorpio men are introspective and independent. They will often withdraw when they need space to handle their own stress, problems, workload and other issues. Sometimes, they will also ignore you if they are irritated or feel claustrophobic in their relationship. These Scorpio men might even disappear for a few hours, and at times, maybe even a few days. We are not saying this behavior is excusable. If anyone disrespects you, they probably shouldn't be in your life.
Although maybe it’s not fair, the way to win a Scorpio man back, would be to understand and accept this trait of his. Yes, in a lot of ways, it is a double standard, but a Scorpio man in love can be quite difficult to understand. If you want to be sure that he is ignoring you, here are a few signs you might notice when a Scorpio man needs space;
- He will not talk to you like he normally does.
- He will not share how he is feeling with you, and may seem distant.
- He will get irritated, even if you’re just in the same room.
- He will avoid making any kind of physical contact with you, not even holding hands.
- Making love is impossible for a Scorpio man who is not feeling happy or in love .
When a Scorpio man feels the need to be alone, don’t feel intimidated by it. It is better not to take these withdrawals personally. Most of the time, taking time to be alone will allow him to actually feel closer to you. One could link this to the saying ‘distance makes the heart grow fonder’; the same applies to a Scorpio man. If a Scorpio man is ignoring you, as tempting as it may be, we don’t recommend ignoring him back. We suggest remaining patient, until he has had time to gather his thoughts and returns to you.
What to do when he ignores you
When a Scorpio man remains silent and distant, but only with you, it is a sign that you have possibly done something which upset him or something he didn’t like. If you notice that your Scorpio man is quiet, angry or upset; give him space. However, both of you should also make sure that this space doesn’t go on for too long, as you could also risk losing your connection; and in the end, break up.
The tricky thing is that if you start ignoring him back, or not approaching him at all, it could develop into a competition of who can ignore each other the best. In this case, a stubborn Scorpio will win. Therefore, stay true to yourself, see how he is and message him occasionally, but do not bombard him neither.
If for example, he does come back as if nothing has happened, and this upsets you; talk to him. Once he has had time to think about everything and is more clear, you may be too. Look at this space as not only beneficial for him, but for you too. Once together again, speak to your man and express your feelings. We recommend trying to come to a compromise on how you can avoid this happening again. For more, we suggest taking a look at our article on; How To Have A Stable Relationship.
Is your Scorpio man ignoring you? Sure, there is a possibility it may be you, but it may equally be due to external factors. Is he stressed? Has he had a bad day at work? The unfortunate thing is that when Scorpion men are angry, they tend to project it onto the people they love the most. This is because they expect these people to understand, and in the end, they don’t then risk loosing anyone. One significant trait of a Scorpio is that they can be selfish. The best thing to do in this case, even if you are not the reason, is to still give your Scorpio man space.
If you force him to talk about something too soon, before he has had time to think, there is more likeliness he may blow up. So, it’s best to leave him alone and allow him to deal with his issues himself; and enjoy this time away!
Compromises in a relationship
Compromise in a relationship can be difficult, especially if you are a proud person. To win a Scorpio man back, if you are the reason he left, you should apologize. But this is exactly what you would want him to do if the situation were vice versa right? Relationships, as mentioned before, are about compromise. Scorpio guys have a tendency to hold grudges for long. Therefore, depending on what the reason is they are angry, forgiveness will come with a ’’sorry’’ and time. Scorpio men will become even more resentful if the reason is partly your fault and you don’t feel the need to apologize.
Scorpios guys will lash out when they are angry, which is why they prefer ignoring you instead of starting conflict. They don’t want to get angry, this is why they ignore you. Due to this, it becomes even more necessary to just give them space. If you don’t, astrology believers think that these Scorpios can be mean and blow up. If you hurt them in the past, Scorpios find it difficult to forget; and might throw it back at you in the future.
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