How to Deal with an Angry Scorpio
Along with their strong and intense characters, Scorpios are also defined as being reserved and cautious people. Do you fall under the Scorpio Zodiac, if so, you should know Scorpios have huge hearts, but can also become indignant with things that they don’t like or disapprove off.
Are you dating a Scorpio? Is your Scorpio friend angry with you? Are you wondering how to deal with a Scorpio when angry? If so, you’ve come to the right place. Here at oneHOWTO we will be discussing how to deal with an angry Scorpio, keep reading for more.
What are Scorpios like?
Although Scorpios have strong personality traits that can at times be difficult to handle, Scorpios also hold remarkable self-control. This, however, means that it can be difficult to know exactly when a Scorpio is angry at you. If you want to find out more about Scorpio traits and characteristics, in order to better understand their behavior, take a look at our article on the characteristics of a Scorpio.
In it you will find there are many facets of a Scorpio, whether man, woman or however they identify. They are positive and negative, like anyone. Not everyone will have the exact same characteristics, but it can be a helpful way to better understand the people in our lives. Often positive Scorpio traits such as being resourceful and self-sufficient mean they can be distant with others or not need to talk for a long time.
Why does a Scorpio ignore you?
Those born under the influence of this water sign do not lose their cool easily, but they will stop talking to you or they will ignore you when they feel offended or angry. A Scorpio's silence and their capacity to ignore the person who has made them angry is a Scorpio's greatest weapon. This type of silent treatment is also part of a Scorpio’s revenge, a trait which falls under the dark side of a Scorpio.
If you want to know more about why a Scorpio is ignoring you, take a look at our article why does a Scorpio man ignore you? It is also important to know that a just because they ignore you doesn't mean they are in the right. Many people who ignore others who want to speak to them could be doing so because they can't engage with their feelings. At the same time, don't push if they are just going to push back.
What to do with a Scorpio's anger
If a Scorpio is angry with you, do not expect a spontaneous reaction. In fact, it might be quite difficult for you to detect whether or not they are in fact angry with you. However, this zodiac sign is characterized by being very spiteful and vindictive, so pay attention! At any moment, if you have subconsciously hurt a Scorpio, they may seek this Scorpio revenge and act on it.
Again, this doesn't mean the Scorpio you hurt is right. If they won't tell you what's the problem, you can't be expected to read their mind. If you know you did something wrong, there is a difference.
How to know if a Scorpio is angry with you
But, how do I know if A scoprio is angry with me? Here are some tips. To know whether or not a Scorpio is angry with you, take a look at their physiognomy (how he or she changes face). If they feel offended, jealous or angry, they will emit subtle signs of anger on their face. These facial patterns in a Scorpio include: pursing lips, slightly arching eyebrows, looking away or staring at the horizon for a long time. All of these physical movements or subtle hints will often be accompanied by silence.
However, they may also be signs of some other issues. Don't necessarily assume their problem is with you. In fact, be sure that a Scorpio is actually angry with you. It is also possible they are upset about something else and your feelings may be misplaced. It is also possible their reticent demeanor means they are behaving normally and not angry at all.
How to deal with a Scorpio ignoring you
On the other hand, before letting themselves explode from rage, a Scorpio will first choose to remove themselves from the situation. A Scorpio removing themselves from a situation is a telling sign that that they are angry with you. If an angry Scorpio leaves you alone, give them time. Scorpios need to be alone to deal with the intensity of their anger, as they wait for it to subside. The reason that Scorpios often do this is because they are private. Scorpio zodiac signs are also incredibly proud people. For more, read up on which Zodiac sign is the proudest?
Will a Scorpio forgive me?
Zodiacs are also considered to be the most strategist zodiac sign. This means that it may take him or her years to forgive and especially forget (depending on the severity of their anger). When dealing with an angry Scorpio we suggest being incredibly kind, compromising and understanding. A Scorpio when hurt will act carefully, and for this reason Scorpios can become quite skeptical, which is why they need to know your apology (if you are the reason for the anger) is genuine.
If your Scorpio boyfriend or girlfriend are angry with you, we have some tips on how to act after here how I should act after arguing with a partner. It is also important to remember that there are universal issues to do with anger, forgiveness and love in relationships. Being a Scorpio or not may not affect these issues.
Saying sorry to a Scorpio
Say sorry if you know you have done something to hurt them. If you are the reason for a Scorpio's anger, we suggest apologizing. But, Scorpio manipulation is a thing to be careful and weary of. This is why we suggest waiting until after an argument before you say sorry, once a Scorpio has calmed down. If you try to fix the situation and/or tension in the moment, it is likely only to escalate.
If they are being reticent, manipulative, giving you the cold shoulder or generally just being unkind, maybe you should be the one ignoring them. Emotional manipulation is not a positive thing, regardless of your star sign. Don't give in to petty or abusive feelings. Maybe cutting them out of your life is the best thing you can do for both parties.
Should you forgive a Scorpio?
Give your Scorpion partner time to think and put things into perspective. Be subtle and skillful before approaching Scorpio when angry. Try to avoid confrontation with an angry Scorpio man or woman. Remain open to compromise and coming to a consensus. Because, we can guarantee you, a Scorpio will not be the understanding one
As you should do with an angry Gemini, we recommend giving time for both people to calm down. If the discussion continues, a Scorpio can easily lose self-control and become cruel. Cruelty is another reason to cut them off.
If you are dealing specifically with an angry Scorpio man, we suggest reading our article on how to understand Scorpio men.
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