How to deal with an angry Scorpio

By Mary Smith. Updated: November 19, 2018
How to deal with an angry Scorpio

Along with theirstrong and intense characters, Scorpios are also defined as being reserved and cautious people. Do you fall under the Scorpio Zodiac, if so, you should know Scorpios have huge hearts, but can also become indignant with things that they don’t like or disapprove off.

Are you dating a Scorpio? Is your Scorpio friend angry with you? Are you wondering how to deal with a Scorpio when angry? If so, you’ve come to the right place. Here at oneHOWTO we will be discussing how to deal with an angry Scorpio, keep reading for more!

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Although Scorpios have strong personality traits that can at times be difficult to handle, Scorpios also hold remarkable self-control. This, however, means that it can be difficult to know exactly when a Scorpio is angry at you. If you want to find out more about Scorpio traits and characteristics, in order to better understand their behavior, take a look at; Characteristics of A Scorpio.


Those born under the influence of this water sign do not lose their cool easily, but they will stop talking to you or they will ignore you when they feel offended or angry. A Scorpio's silence and their capacity to ignore the person who has made them angry is a Scorpio's greatest weapon. This type of silent treatment is also part of a Scorpio’s revenge, a trait which falls under the dark side of a Scorpio.

If you want to know more about why a Scorpio is ignoring you, take a look at our article; Why Does A Scorpio Man Ignore You? What to Do!

How to deal with an angry Scorpio - Step 2

If a Scorpio is angry with you, do not expect a spontaneous reaction. In fact, it might be quite difficult for you to detect whether or not they are in fact angry with you. However, this zodiac sign is characterized for being very spiteful and vindictive, so pay attention! At any moment, if you have subconsciously hurt a Scorpio, they will seek this Scorpio revenge and act on it.


But, how do I know if A scoprio is angry with me? Here are some tips! To know whether or not a Scorpio is angry with you, take a look at their physiognomy (how he or she changes face). If they feel offended, jealous or angry, they will emit subtle signs of anger on their face. These facial patterns in a Scorpio include; pressing lips, slightly arching eyebrows, looking away or staring at the horizon for a long time. All of these physical movements or subtle hints will often be accompanied by silence.


On the other hand, before letting themselves explode from rage, a Scorpio will first choose to remove themselves from the situation. A Scorpio removing themselves from a situation is a telling sign that that they are angry with you. If an angry Scorpio leaves you alone, give them time. Scorpios need to be alone to deal with the intensity of their anger, as they wait for it to subside. The reason that Scorpios often do this is because they are private. Scorpio zodiac signs are also incredibly proud people. For more, read up on: Which Zodiac Sign Is the Proudest.

How to deal with an angry Scorpio - Step 5

Zodiacs are also considered to be the most strategist zodiac sign. This means that it may take him or her years to forgive and especially forget (depending on the severity of their anger). When dealing with an angry Scorpio we suggest being incredibly kind, compromising and understanding. A Scorpio when hurt will act carefully, and for this reason Scorpios can become quite skeptical, which is why they need to know your apology (if you are the reason for the anger) is genuine. If your Scorpio boyfriend or girlfriend are angry with you, we have some tips on how to act after here; How Should I Act After an Argument with my Partner.


Say sorry. If you are the reason or cause of Scorpio anger, we suggest apologizing. But, Scorpio manipulation is a thing to be careful and weary of. This is why we suggest waiting until after an argument before you say sorry, once a Scorpio has calmed down. If you try to fix the situation and/or tension in the moment, it is likely only to escalate.

How to deal with an angry Scorpio - Step 7

Give your Scorpion partner time to think and put things into perspective. As you should do with an angry Gemini, we recommend giving time for both people to calm down. if the discussion continues, a Scorpio can easily lose self-control and become cruel.

How to deal with an angry Scorpio - Step 8

Be subtle and skillful before approaching Scorpio when angry. Try to avoid confrontation with an angry Scorpio man or woman. Remain open to compromise and coming to a consensus. Because, we can guarantee you, a Scorpio will not be the understanding one.

If you are dealing specifically with an angry Scorpio man, we suggest skimming over; How To Understand Scorpio men.

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My sister is a Scorpio and she got very angry that I ate the rest of the chips in front of her when she wanted some. After that she started yelling and snatched the chip bag away from me and my mother came down and yelled at her. After a while she stopped yelling but she was still very annoyingly angry. She started the sitting behind me and complaining about how “mean me and my brother are”, and going “hmph” in between sentences. And now the looks depressed even though she’s not sad in the slightest but only full of rage... ŌwÒ ~what do I do now?
Ms N
We have had a long distance relationship for a year and finally are trying to put it together. He called and video chatted everyday until the 4 days I spent there. He got upset that his job constraints kept him from taking me to the airport but I tried to let him know I understood but looked forward to next time. He has not communicated since.
Scorpio here born November 15th #Social butterfly :) Scorpio sun Virgo Rising. In regards to anger I think it depends on the type of scorpio and what is in the birth chart. I know for me personally I try my best to forgive, not hold grudges, openly communicate with others, and I am slow to get angry. I am typically angry when treated poorly and distant myself to prevent being mean to others. I refuse to put time and energy into something that is going to impact me.

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This was wrong. Im a scorpio and the last thing that I want is for someone to leave me angry. I like to be chased and I will tell you that I don't and I will tell you to leave me be. Really, I want you to smother me in affection. Im pushing you away bc I felt let down and as a defense mechanism, I am going into a shell and can only be let out by attention and sincere affection or I will only hide farther and drive myself crazy wondering why you aren't chasing me from me pushing you away. make sense? Lol it does to me! You need to chase but not too much and in the right way. Body language and very slight hints that they give (you will have to figure that out) are given out and your job is to find out what they're expecting from you by not saying anything at all. You must pay close attn. Scorpio is always observing. We may say something is ok but actually really have a severe problem with it and we wont say anything. Just expect that it's common sense and you should know to change the behavior by small reactions. It's a hard life being a scorp. Even harder being a scorp and being misunderstood.
There really isn't anything more sensible than dumping those psycho types. It's only when you leave them angry that they start to think of you - prior to that it's just manipulation to get your time and focus 'in the right way' - so they can boss you around like their little slave. It's the quintessential narcissist behavior. If it was the only choice I'd tell you to let them hold you under your thumb because there's no other choice.
But there are 11 more zodiac signs, mostly not psycho. I can't work out why anyone would put up with their behaviour - expect if they feel like they are guilty somewhere else and want to spend their bad karma with a scorpio.
Denise Johnson
Read Dwads... and deeply. Ruler of personal planet and rising Dwads and related points... for sure though, onlyrics a true Scorpio type would understand and pair and bond with another only of the same personality type. You don't not follow them as referenced in number 8 because they have personality flaws it's because you would not be compatible.

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