How to Understand Scorpio Men
Men who are Scorpio are very deep and intense people and understanding them will be key to keeping any form of relationship with him. If you are willing to deal with a man of this sign of the Zodiac know that you will be faced with someone who is very loyal and, ultimately, a great friend. Scorpios are also, as partners and lovers, quite passionate men. To learn more about how to understand Scorpio men, keep reading this oneHOWTO article.
First, you must know all the strengths and weaknesses of a Scorpio man. Their strengths include being loyal, passionate, observant and dynamic. Their weak points however, are that they are jealous, unyielding, manipulative, suspicious and obsessive. If you want to know all the features and personality traits of Scorpio, see the article How are Scorpios for more details on their character.
Understand that a Scorpio man is intensely independent. Most likely he will never give up on something that he has been thinking about doing. He prefers to be in control of situations, and this includes what happens at home. To keep the Scorpio man happy let him always have his space and try not to burden him too much. Do not tell him that he is incapable of something or he will work twice as hard in order to get it. Understand that Scorpio men will need a lot of support, so don't mess around with him, and hail his accomplishments.
Normally, a Scorpio man adapts perfectly to any social position. He is usually quite thrifty and knows how to manage money well, he has the special ability to save it and make it grow. He will often keep secret his financial position and power, mostly to ensure that no one tries to take advantage of it. Scorpio is highly intuitive and thus will know if you are trying to take advantage of you or have a hidden agenda, so make sure you are as honest as possible, especially if money is involved.
Remember that a Scorpio man is a man of extremes, usually without a middle ground. He can be possessive and jealous, but it compensates with loyalty. He never forgets things people have done, whether it is an act of kindness or betrayal. If someone has hurt him he will seek revenge. If someone has helped him he will do everything possible to return the favor. This is why, if you don't know a Scorpio man very well, he may seem cold blooded to you, but, once you have crossed the barrier from relation to friend, you will definitely benefit from all the kindness that Scorpio has to offer, as long as you know how to return the favor.
Do not be offended by his sense of humor. It is usually very sincere but also very shocking. He may joke about things that other people would not say out aloud. In short, the Scorpio man says things that everyone else is afraid to express, is ruthless and will usually point out each person's weak points but, fret not, it's nothing personal, he's just into dark humor and irony.
This means that Scorpio is also witty,he'll have an answer to every single remark you make, and it will definitely be worth it.
Scorpio men are determined and do not tend to give up easily. He will do anything possible to achieve his goals and make his viewpoint the correct one. If faced with a Scorpio in a debate, be prepared to lose, as there is nothing Scorpios love more than a good argument.
He also tends to be afraid of failure, but does not show it. If he fails at something, he just seems to forget about it and move on. The Scorpio man refuses to show weakness. You must remember that the Scorpio man comes across as strong, even when inside he is not.
He is a man of intensity in everything he does, this is why they may be hard to understand like Gemini women. When he is sad, he will be very sad. When he is happy, he is ecstatic. He will always believe to have a deep purpose in life. He will be dedicated to getting everything he has in mind. He is intuitive and understands people well.
If he likes you, he will show it physically, as he is a great cuddler and likes showing his emotions in an intense and passionate way, so don't worry if he wants to he'll come around.
Be completely honest with a Scorpio man because if he finds out (and likely that he will) you do not want to discover what this zodiac sign's dark side is like. A Scorpio man is demanding in all relationships, but the return is worth it.
Are you not getting along with a Scorpio man? Then maybe your zodiac sign is not compatible with Scorpio. Remember that Leo women have a very low compatibility rate with Scorpio, so don't be surprised if things aren't going too well with the both of you.
In fact, here are the signs that are most compatible with Scorpio:
The rest of the signs have a medium compatibility, which is why they should work on the tips mentioned above if they want their relationship to be good in any aspect of their lives.
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- Never betray a Scorpio. If you are looking to play with someone's emotions you should try anther sign.