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How to Attract a Scorpio Man

Mary Smith
By Mary Smith. Updated: October 4, 2017
How to Attract a Scorpio Man

Have you fallen for a Scorpio man? If you want to seduce and attract a man with this zodiac sign, the first thing you should know is how to understand him. Scorpio men have very distinctive traits: they are highly passionate, jealous and dynamic. So, taking these characteristics into account, you will have to work on your seductive skills to get your man to notice you and make him fall for you. Let's take a closer look at the tips you'll need to follow if you want to attract a Scorpio man.

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  1. What are Scorpios like?
  2. Compatibility with Scorpio
  3. Get Scorpio to notice you
  4. How to win a Scorpio's heart
  5. What to look out for
  6. Gemstones that will help you attract a Scorpio man

What are Scorpios like?

To attract a Scorpio man, you should know that they are not all the same. Some may posses certain qualities that other guys don't. However, they all have one thing in common: their intensity; which is why this is the first thing you should work on. The Scorpio man you are interested in may also have the following characteristics:

Goal driven

Scorpios are highly driven by challenges, they can be very focused on their goals and may not stop until they achieve them so, if Scorpio is also attracted to you, rest assured he will do whatever it takes to get you.


This zodiac sign is also creative in all aspects of his life. They will turn a boring date into something extraordinary and will always go the extra mile so that everything is special. However, they tend to fall for people who will be their match, so it's important to wreck your brains to fulfill their expectations.


Scorpio men tend to be pretty honest, which can sometimes translate into plain criticism. If you feel like a Scorpio man is criticizing you or anything you do with their sting, don't take it too, personally, it's just their way of expressing what they think although, as we'll see later on, it can also become a turn-off.


Another trait that defines Scorpio men is their capacity to adapt to any kind of situation. They will normally go with the flow and will feel comfortable in any context you put them in, as they will quickly try to adapt. Therefore, don't fret too much about if you guy will like a certain place, restaurant or group of people, they will always know how to handle the situation and make the most of it.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man - What are Scorpios like?

Compatibility with Scorpio

Scorpio is a water sign, which is why they tend to go with the flow and usually match with any other sign. However, you should know how Scorpio interacts with each of the Zodiac signs so you know how to approach him:

Scorpio and Capricorn

Due to the fact that both zodiac signs are pretty emotional, these two signs may not show how they feel at the beginning, so Capricorn may have to interpret what Scorpio's true intentions are. These two signs need to be highly honest with each other, as resentment may break their relationship. This said, these two signs are highly compatible, so there is a big chance of success.

Scorpio and Aries

Aries may have a little more work when attracting a Scorpio man. These signs are opposites, so Aries will need to find a way in to Scorpio that will not always be the easiest. Aries should be patient, and get the time to know Scorpio well, do not rush things if you want to attract him.

Scorpio and Cancer

Scorpio and Cancer will quickly get along, so make sure you create a routine that will get Scorpio to warm up to you every day. Always be positive and make sure you keep some mystery to yourself to seduce a Scorpio man.

Scorpio and Libra

Scorpio and Libra have medium compatibility, which is why Libra should always make sure that Scorpio is entertained, by giving him a direct challenge that your man will want to win. Make sure he is entertained in activities while you are indirectly also winning him over.

Scorpio and Aquarius

Things between these two signs can go wild very easily, so if Aquarius wants to attract Scorpio, he or she will have to be extremely cautious things don't blow up. Aquarius will have to give a lot for Scorpio to finally set his mind on this zodiac sign, so work hard!

Scorpio and Taurus

These two are signs of drama, so make sure you find yourself in intense situations that will trigger Scorpio's emotions if you want to attract your man. Be as romantic as you can and make sure you appraise Scorpio regularly.

Scorpio and Leo

If Leo wants to attract Scorpio, don't be afraid to propose excursions or outings as dates. Scorpio will love doing dynamic activities and Leo's enthusiasm towards life, so make sure you are always positive to attract Scorpio.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man - Compatibility with Scorpio

Scorpio and Sagittarius

When fire and water come together, the combination can be highly exciting. If you want to attract Scorpio, you should play casual but be determined. Sagittarius should be witty and try to spice things up when possible.

Scorpio and Pisces

If Pisces wants to attract Scorpio, he or she should create an aura of mystery so Scorpio will take notice. Pisces should also try and understand Scorpio. Meet in solitary places away from the crowds too if you want to find the perfect excuse to be with him.

Scorpio and Gemini

If Gemini wants to attract Scorpio, the best way to his heart is to become friends beforehand. Once Scorpio sees you as a friend it will be much easier for him to feel attracted to you, although you should note it might take a long time before he realizes he's attracted to you.

Scorpio and Virgo

These two signs will have to meet halfway if they want to understand each other. Virgo will have to shower Scorpio with gifts and small tokens if he wants Scorpio to notice him or her. Dancing is the perfect way for virgo to seduce and attract a Scorpio man. Take a look at this article if you want to know how to attract a virgo man too.

Scorpio and Scorpio

The chemistry between two Scorpios is highly noticeable, so you won't have to do much to attract another Scorpio, just make sure you are at the right place and the right time to unleash your seductive abilities and the other Scorpio will instantly be attracted to you.

Get Scorpio to notice you

To attract a Scorpio man, you will have to play games instead of talking directly to him. Make sure you have an aura of mystery around you at all times.

To do so, use the power of your eyes to seduce him in the middle of class, meeting or even a crowd of people, so he can only you were looking at him. Take a look at our article on how to seduce somebody with your eyes if you need some help with this.

Let him be the one to come over to you, or send him secret messages so he's intrigued about your intentions. As we've said, Scorpio loves games, so this will definitely catch his eye.

Scorpios are highly sociable, so you should be ready for highly social situations and stand out from the crowd if you want Scorpio to notice you. Make sure it's working by learning the signs to know if a Scorpio man is in love with you too!

How to Attract a Scorpio Man - Get Scorpio to notice you

How to win a Scorpio's heart

Pay attention and really listen to Scorpio when he is talking, ask questions about what he's explaining, this will not only empower him but let him know you are interested in what he has to say.

An angry Scorpio is pretty difficult to deal with, so it's best not to start an argument with this zodiac sign if you want to win his heart. Be respectful with his opinions without having to bend to his point of view.

Insist on mystery, explain stories about you during several dates, never in one go. Tell him you'll explain more about it on the next date. Always give him something to linger on to so he's curious about your personality.

The final thing that will help you attract Scorpio is to show loyalty towards him, so defend him when necessary and show him you are somebody who can be trusted.

What to look out for

You should know that Scorpios are one of the most jealous zodiac signs. Don't let jealousy stand in the way of attracting a Scorpio man, though you should make things clear at the beginning and don't let any sings of jealousy go unnoticed or they may scale in the future.

Scorpios are also pretty weary about their privacy, so it's very important you give him space for his own matters. Do not be hostile about anything you may not know about him, he will let you know when the time comes.

Don't let monotony and boredom ruin this relationship. If you notice that Scorpio seems to have lost interest in you, then you'll need to come up with a brilliant idea to catch his eye quickly or he may be completely disinterested in you.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man - What to look out for

Gemstones that will help you attract a Scorpio man

If you want some extra help to attract a Scorpio man, you should know that the power of gemstones may help you in this quest.

Bloodstone is the most effective gemstone to use in order to attract a Scorpio man. Carrying this stone around when you are close to him will help him feel your presence by sending positive energy towards him.

Another useful gemstone that will help you attract Scorpio is Sardinian Jasper, which will help your Scorpio man get the confidence he needs to approach you in the most positive way possible.

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