How to Deal with an Angry Virgo

By Mary Smith. Updated: August 29, 2017
How to Deal with an Angry Virgo

Virgo is the sign of the zodiac that rules over those who have been born between the 24th of August and the 23rd September. They are characterized for being rational, logical and analytical people. Virgos have many qualities, but it can be quite hard to be around them when they're angry. When Virgos are in a bad mood they tend to be stubborn and listen to anything but they anger. When a Virgo is angry it is difficult to change their mind, come to an agreement and even indulge them.

However, with the right techniques and behavior towards them, you can manage the situation and help Virgos calm down. If you want to know how to deal with an angry Virgo, carefully read these tips we give on oneHOWTO.

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Don't ask them if they're angry

Everyone knows when a Virgo is angry because their temperament and character will not let them hide it, but they think they are disguising themselves. So to avoid the fury from being unleashed from within them, the best thing you can do to deal with them is never ask if they are angry, because this makes them feel betrayed, increases discomfort and, above all, they will come out with a very sparse and sometimes rude response.

Leave them alone for a while

To deal with an angry Virgo it is recommended to leave them alone for a while. This earth sign needs their own space to think and drain the feelings they are bottling up. This will allow them to reduce their anger, use their analytical skills to determine why they are angry and question whether it is worth staying angry. After a short time alone they will come to apologize or make conversation.

Apologize immediately

If a Virgo is angry and has a reason to be so, the best thing to do is to apologize immediately. Virgo personality makes them want things to be calm and everything to be going well, so they generally accept apologies well when they receive them and their anger begins to dissipate gradually until they behave as if nothing has happened.

How to Deal with an Angry Virgo - Apologize immediately

Don't shout at him/her

To deal with an angry Virgo it's good to know that this sign does not tolerate shouting. If the person is irritated and begins to shout the trouble will be much worse, because it makes them feel unable to control the situation and resolve the conflict. When it comes to arguing, Virgo like to do it calmly, so that you listen to their point of view, let them speak and then explain your point of view and what you have to say.

How to Deal with an Angry Virgo - Don't shout at him/her

Don't be too harsh

Virgo can go from anger to sadness very rapidly. If they see that they've been insulted, they put this character or reputation into play and can make themselves feel so bad to the point of crying because of what made them angry. Therefore it is advisable to deal with an angry Virgo with very subtle, caring words and most importantly respect their point of view and opinions.

Never ignore them

The worst thing you can do to deal with an angry Virgo is ignore them, Virgo likes attention, likes to know that you are not happy with the situation and that is annoying though they believe they are hiding. Ignoring it and turning a blind eye to their anger will only make it worse. It is better to confront Virgo, and as it is not advisable to ask if they are angry, it is advisable to use phrases like "what can I do to improve this"; " sorry if I offended you, it was not my intention"; "I'm sorry you feel that way". Make sure you know if Virgo is still interested in you after the fight!

How to Deal with an Angry Virgo - Never ignore them

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my girlfriend is a virgo !. i am a taurus ! we recently had a fight because i betrayed her trust. i know she still loves me ,but she says that she cant be in relationship with me now because that would create more quarels and discomfort. she told me to wait for sometime and then we can make things alright!. but i don't know ,when is that sometime going to end. And after 3 months ,i wont be able to see her, because i am moving to another place. what i can do to make her forget the past without hurting her right away.? because,she is still hurt and angry with me.
It's not that easy to gain back the trust of a virgo girl. Virgo girls are mostly people who never have remorse once they decided to leave a person, but then at the same time, they are the people who stayed beside you no matter how harsh the situation is. However, once they are disappointed there's no way you will get them back. Good luck to you. Who knows if she still love you, if she does she will think about you and you just have to apologise and make things right again. It won't be easy convincing them cause they will still be mad. All you have to do is have patience and keep doing your make-things-right action. If you're really sincere she might come back. If not, you are going to lose her forever.
This is potentially very helpful and useful information! Though I have to say some of the tips seem contradictory. For example, leave them alone for a while but never ignore them? Particularly if they started it I'm inclined to stick with the former... maybe it depends on the situation?
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This means you should give them space but should always answer when you are summoned by a virgo.
Well, that means you can leave them to have their own space but not totally ignoring them from the bottom of your heart. They need time.
nice article
the best thing to do is just leave us alone to rationalize and sort out why you've upset us in the first place. If we conclude we're the one who did wrong, we'll apologize. If we conclude it was both sides who were wrong, we'll try to talk it out to reach a common ground. We don't like to admit when we're wrong but we're not going to make you feel bad about it either. We can work it out. Most "issues" are simply trivialities or misunderstandings that can be sorted out.

However if you did something on purpose and out of malice, we forgive but we don't forget. Don't hurt our pride, don't test our patience, and definitely don't over step your boundaries. While it's true we acquiesce easily, if we feel we've been wronged and we've rationalized and concluded we've been out.

We don't don't fight, we don't waste energy. You're dead to us.
It would be nice to know what to expect from an angry Virgo when the anger has nothing to do with me but is brought home from a bad day at work or calls from some other outside source.
does it matter
just leave them. dont talk. they will come to you when they are less angry.
I have a boyfriend he is a Virgo I know why he is mad at me.Sometimes when his ass in the wrong and I'm mad at him he gets mad.I'm like in my head "Why the fuck you mad?" But when I explain to him how feel and tell him how he's wrong.Then I hit him with "Why you mad? I'm the one should be mad" So unless you know why he mad,he leave him be and if you don't still let him be.

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