How to Deal with an Angry Virgo
Virgo is the zodiac sign which rules over those who born between the 24th of August and the 23rd September. Virgos are characterized for being rational, logical and analytical people. Virgos have many qualities, but it can be quite hard to be around them when they're angry. When a Virgo is mad, they tend to be quite stubborn and hardheaded. When a Virgo is angry it is difficult to change their mind, come to an agreement or to even indulge them.
Are you dealing with an angry Virgo man or woman? Well, this can be a difficult situation to approach, but we’re here to help you. By knowing exactly how Virgos think, one can use specific techniques to win a Virgo over. If you want to know how to deal with an angry Virgo, keep reading our tips here at oneHOWTO.
Virgo anger - Don't ask them if they're angry
A Virgo’s traits don’t allow them to hide the truth of how they are feeling. Virgos are somewhat easy to read and transparent. Therefore, when a Virgo is angry it’s difficult for them to hide it. A Virgo’s traits, however, also make them ‘think’ that they’re hiding these characteristics when in fact they are not.
This is why, if a Virgo man or woman is mad, we recommend never actually asking them if they’re angry. This is because Virgo’s can also be slightly sensitive. If you ask them if they’re angry they will feel shame and react negatively. This is also partially due to embarrassment and denial. You will need to be tactful and understanding of a Virgo's feelings when they are mad. Actually, you may need to be gentle at all times with Virgos.
To find out more about this sun sign and Virgo traits, take a look at our article on what are Virgo’s like?
Virgo anger - Give them space
Are you wondering how to treat an angry Virgo? well, the first thing we can recommend is giving this Virgo space. Virgo is an earth sign which needs space and time in order to think and analyse their own problems and situations. If Virgos are not given this space, they can feel trapped and claustrophobic. Space will allow a Virgo to minimize their anger, use their analytical skills to determine why they are angry and question whether it’s worth staying angry.
If given time and space to think and breathe a little, a Virgo will eventually come back to you with a better understanding of the situation at hand. In order not to make a Virgo angry, we suggest knowing how to make a Virgo angry, and avoiding these things.
Virgo anger - Apologize immediately
If a Virgo is angry with you and has a reason to be so, the best thing to do is to apologize immediately. Virgos are generally very open to apologies. Virgos like to feel calm and if offered the opportunity to diminish a negative situation they will take it. If you apologize to an angry Virgo, they will generally accept the apology immediately and forget about the situation entirely, allowing you both to move on.
Virgo anger - Don't shout at him/her
When dealing with an angry Virgo, you should know that this sign does not tolerate shouting. If you are irritated and begin to shout at a Virgo, they will immediately either react or distance themselves. Are you dating a Virgo woman? Is your Virgo man angry with you? well, if this is the case, we recommend approaching the situation calmly with an aim to resolve it. Virgos hate arguing, they want to be heard and they want to have both point of views understood.
Virgo anger - Don't be too harsh
Virgos can go from anger to sadness very quickly. Is a Virgo man ignoring you after an argument? If Virgos feel insulted, they will begin to question your character as a person. Therefore, when a Virgo is mad, we recommend approaching the situation with an open-mind. We suggest that you opt rather for caring and respectful words. If you respect a Virgo and try to understand their point of view, you can be sure that they will return the kindness.
Virgo anger - Never ignore them
The worst thing you can do to deal with an angry Virgo is ignore them. Virgos like attention and they want to know that you care enough about them that the situation itself is also bothering you, not just them. If you choose to ignore an angry Virgo, be sure that tension will only worsen. But this is where it may become slightly confusing, if you can’t ask a Virgo if they are angry, what can you do? Well, there are other ways of approaching an angry Virgo. Try something like, "what can I do to improve this"; " sorry if I offended you, it was not my intention"; "I'm sorry you feel that way". If you are worried, you can make sure you know if Virgo is still interested in you after the fight!
How to get a Virgo man to forgive you
You may be dealing with an angry Virgo man because you are the one who has made them angry. Since they can often be so sensitive, it is possible they will be hurt very easily. They may see hurt and betrayal more easily than others. This might be the case even if there was no intentional hurt caused. For this reason, getting a Virgo man to forgive you can be tricky.
On the other hand, Virgo men don't generally like conflict. For this reason, they may be willing to forgive you on the surface, but they may still hold some grudge against you. What's more complicated is that, if a Virgo cannot address their own feelings, it is possible this grudge will be subconscious. For this reason, you not only need to ensure they forgive you, but you need to know it is genuine.
For you to know if a Virgo man genuinely forgives you, you need to be genuine in your apology. Make sure they trust you when you apologize and also make sure you talk about it properly. Be open, don't allow them to hide and take their anger if it is necessary.
If a Virgo man still doesn't forgive you when you have been genuine and apologized, then it is up to them to become more emotionally mature. This can be difficult, but it will be in their best interests in the long run.
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