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Sings Your Husband Is Cheating with a Coworker

By Alice Marini. Updated: January 16, 2017
Sings Your Husband Is Cheating with a Coworker

Are you looking for signs your husband is cheating with a coworker? If it is so, you are not alone. Lots of wives ask themselves: "is he cheating with someone at work". The point is that work is obviously the first place where a married man might meet someone, and it is often a space where the wife is not around, and where he can meet younger and single women. But what are the signs your husband is cheating with a coworker? First of all, follow your instinct, because you might already have the answer to the question: "is he cheating with someone at work?", you just do not want to admit it. Also, keep in mind that even if your husband is showing the signs he is cheating with a coworker, maybe he hasn't cheated yet, and he is just flirting. Anyway, prevention is the best cure. Read carefully as we explain the signs your husband is cheating with a coworker.

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Signs your husband is cheating with a coworker: after work

Those are the signs he is cheating with someone at work that your husband will show when he comes back home:

  • names one particular female colleague repeatedly
  • he is always on the phone, but goes to another room to talk
  • hides phone and laptop out of your sight
  • he doesn't answer the phone in front of you
  • he doesn't let you use his mobile phone
  • he has male contacts in his cell phone you had never heard of
  • his email is suddenly cleaned up, the bin empty, that is a very good sign your husband is cheating
  • your husband stays up at the computer and tells you to go to sleep and not wait for him
  • your husband shuts down the laptop the minute you get into the room, that's also a pretty good sign your husband is cheating
  • he changes he password on the cell phone, social media, and computer
  • there is a general change in his life routine
  • Your husband smells differently when he comes back from work, that's a sign your husband is cheating with a coworker
  • he has shower immediately when he comes back from work, that's another sign your husband is cheating with a coworker
  • You seem to be running out of money when he is working sooo much
Sings Your Husband Is Cheating with a Coworker - Signs your husband is cheating with a coworker: after work

Signs your husband is cheating with a coworker: at work

Those behaviours he has at work are clear signs your husband is cheating with a coworker:

  • he discourages you from calling him at work
  • he is often unavailable at work when you call him
  • your husband works long hours, more frequently, but you don't see any extra money
  • he doesn't take you to work events and makes you feel bad if you ask him to, that's a good sign your husband is cheating with a coworker
  • when you meet your husband's colleagues they seem to uncomfortable with you, that's a very good sign your husband is cheating with a coworker
  • he spends a lot for lunch at work, he goes to restaurants

Signs your husband is cheating with a coworker: outside

Here are the behaviours your husband has outside the house that are signs he is cheating with someone at work:

  • has frequent business trips he didn't use to take
  • your husband sees his friends and goes out more often
  • he doesn't take you out to events, and makes you feel intrusive if you ask to go with him
  • he "forgets" to wear his wedding ring when he goes out
  • your husband volunteers to go out and buy something and takes ages to buy stuff
  • the credit card statement shows strange expenses
  • he always wants to be informed about your schedule
  • he removes the kids car seat from the car

Signs your husband is cheating with a coworker: the attitude

There is a certain change in the attitude that is a sign your husband is cheating with a coworker:

  • he has a sudden boost of confidence, probably due to the fact that an attractive woman is into him?
  • he doesn't talk about his day with you, and does not ask for your advice in personal and work matters
  • he is forgetful, like he is always somewhere else
  • he is distant and not interested in what you say, that's a good sign your husband is cheating
  • he might sometimes treat you extremely nicely, in a weird and artificial way
  • he encourages you to go out and have more social life
  • he seems to be unusually creative in bed and asks you to do something new
  • he has a new skill in sex
  • he has a look restyling: hair, clothes etc.
  • he asks you to have a look restyling, accidentally similar to his colleague, that's a sign your husband is cheating with a coworker
  • he transforms small arguments into a drama and seems to always blame you for everything
  • he asks you questions such as: "do you believe a man can love 2 women?"
  • he suddenly listens to a new music genre
  • he is not into playing with your children
  • he doesn't want to kiss you

See also signs your partner wants to break up

Sings Your Husband Is Cheating with a Coworker - Signs your husband is cheating with a coworker: the attitude

How to prove that your husband is cheating with a coworker

Now that you know the signs your husband is cheating with a coworker, you can look for proofs. Here is what to look for:

  • search your husband internet history
  • check the phone bill, that's the best sign your husband is cheating with a coworker
  • you can track his mobile phone
  • surprise him at work in a nice way
  • check the bank statements and compare the expenses with the hours he tells you he is working late, or at the gym etc.
  • look for coworker hair in the car
  • keep an eye on the car mileage
  • observe your husband's body: does he have scratches?

Observe the signs your husband is cheating with a coworker and always trust your gut!

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